Unequal marriage

One of the latest phrases to enter the dictionary is ‘equal marriage’.  Now, that’s an attempt to frame the question before it is even asked.  After all, who would support a marriage that is unequal?

Well, I would.

Marriage is in itself a joining of unequals – husband and wife bringing their own unique blend of strengths and weaknesses to a marriage.  How boring it would be if we WERE equal. And how deeply destructive.  As it is, I know there are certain areas in which I will excel, and other that I should step back if I know what is good for me! We are not constantly competing for ascendancy, or to borrow from Orwell, heading towards a place where “all marriages are equal, but some are more equal than others”.

‘Equal’ marriage is all really about the striving for legitimacy – a legitimacy that can only be realised by the full physical and emotional complementarity of marriage – marriage between one man and one woman.

Even human marriage is a foreshadowing of the ultimate marriage – between the Lamb and His Bride, the Church.

Let us rejoice and be happy
    and give God glory!
Give God glory, because the wedding of the Lamb has come.
    And the Lamb’s bride has made herself ready.
 Rev 19 v7

Christians who believe in ‘equal marriage’ are I think the ones who will be the most disappointed – because there will be no equality in that marriage. The Husband of the Bride, He Himself modelled inequality for us.

In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
Phil. 2 v5-7.

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Loving Jesus with all our heart

At the beginning of the Welsh revival in 1904, a young girl named Florrie Evans rose to her feet and said, “I love Jesus Christ with all my heart.”  So began a fire that carried over into all five continents.

Recently, I was at a church service, watching people at the end as we were singing “Holy and Anointed One”. As we were singing, some folks went to get their kids, at which point others got up to leave, or chat with friends.  By the end of the song, maybe 10% were still worshipping.

It just seemed incongruous – just a few were worshipping –  Jesus, Jesus, Holy and anointed One, Jesus – and for everybody else, it was as if it was not happening.  As I watched, what I felt from the Lord was a deep sadness.  Sadness that this was His bride – and they were ignoring Him.

To be clear –  this is not about sitting in judgment on anyone, or wanting folks to feel ashamed.  I’m sure there were very good reasons.  And you can count me in the number of those who simply don’t love the Lord with all their hearts.

This is about feeling the sadness from God, and how much we still need to return to Him, to worship Him, to glorify Him.  And to have our hearts melted and renewed by Him.

Funny thing was – as I walked outside the church pondering, I came across this:



Seems as if the stones do indeed cry out.

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Above the crystalline sea, the land is suffused with a golden light. The air is crisp, pure and exhilarating. There is peace, purpose, beauty and a strength of a reality that far exceeds our own. This place, that we can only see in vision, gives hope for those of us living in a land of ghosts, where fogs and smoke so often obscure the Truth.

It’s hard to see clearly when there are so many words, so much spin, truth distorted and obscured. So when I asked my Father if there is anything he wanted to tell me, he gave me a little glimpse of heaven. I wasn’t expecting that; rarely does He speak on my plane, but raises me up to His.

So remember – there is a Beauty, a Life and a Place that no smoke has touched, or ever will. Let a piece of your mind dwell there today.

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On Worship

It seems to me that when our hearts are turned inwards, when we’re concentrating on our response to You in worship – it’s like trying to pull ourselves up by our bootstraps. A lot of effort with no reward.

But when we move beyond the ‘me’ songs to songs really worshipping You, it suddenly changes. It’s not about us, how we’re feeling or responding, but about You.  The funny thing is, when we’re worshipping You, there’s no room for ‘me’ and we empty out and lighten up.

What we tried so hard to do with our bootstraps we find happening anyway; we’re so light we just float up on Your praises.

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Happy Birthday

It just occurred to me – The Age to Come blog is 10 this month. Happy birthday, I guess. 🙂

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See no evil

Every year, approximately 44 million people are murdered.  Their deaths generally go unremarked, unreported and unnoticed. We have become inured to the killing fields.  The deaths are an acceptable collateral to the lives we choose to lead.

There is more that could be said, but it has been better said by others elsewhere. As I observed here, if you can be OK with this, you can be OK with anything.

But, this is the way of the world.  As Ephesians 2:2-9 says:

You were dead in your transgressions and sins in which you once lived following the age of this world, following the ruler of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the disobedient.All of us once lived among them in the desires of our flesh, following the wishes of the flesh and the impulses, and we were by nature children of wrath, like the rest. But God, who is rich in mercy, because of the great love he had for us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, brought us to life with Christ — by grace you have been saved –raised us up with him, and seated us with him in the heavens in Christ Jesus, that in the ages to come he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not from you; it is the gift of God.

The real question on my heart is –  why do many in the Church not have this matter as one of the top things on our prayer list?  Why do we not hear about the reality of the situation from those who preach to us?  The land is drenched with blood, we sacrifice our unborn like the Canaanites of old, and from the Church we hear….silence.

Have we become so used to the killing fields that we regard the status quo as normal?  Perhaps we’re a little uncomfortable, and personally disapprove – but we dare not mention it in public, lest somebody become upset and offended.

But to be comfortable, and get along – that is NOT our role in this world.  We are to be Salt and Light.  You rub Salt into a wound, you will get a reaction.  You switch a Light on in a darkened room, same story.  But that’s what we’re supposed to be – prophets to the culture, not chaplains.

Let us be clear.  We bathe our land in the blood of 44 million innocents every year.  If we don’t care, who will?

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1 Samuel 16 v7

But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.

Perhaps we know not to judge by outward appearances, but to consider a persons heart.  But it is a hard thing to do in practice, it’s very easy to make a judgment based on appearances.  And we all know this, so we make great efforts to appear good – not just in physical  appearances, but also to be viewed in a positive social light by our community.

How much of our lives are governed by the tyranny of the veneer?  How much effort to we put into appearances?  We want people to like us – we know what we ought to be, and because we cannot even meet our own expectations, we end up putting so much effort into appearances. We all wear masks, we all know others wear them too – and by some unspoken agreement we keep the joint pretense going.  Hypocrisy works best in a group setting.

I found myself pondering this recently, and then I wondered what it will look like one day, when the veneer of our lives gets stripped away, when who we really are emerges from the shell.  I suspect most of us would shudder at the thought.

Which is why it really all comes back to Jesus .  Clothed in His righteousness, in the wedding garment of the lamb, what emerges is spotless and without stain. His righteousness covers us, literally blots out the stain of sin and corruption.  As if it had never been there.  Now, that is Good News!






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